I have come to realise recently that a lot of what I have been doing with J craft wise is very end product orientated, so we are always aiming to “Make something” – it’s partly as that is what J asks to do he wants to make “Animal Prints” or “Snowmen” and partly because as an adult that is what we are conditioned to do – we don’t just play or create there is always a thing that we want to make.
So this week I am just letting J paint because he wants to paint. I’m sitting on my hands as he mixes various colours together and getting him what ever he wants to use – brushes, sponges, pom poms, cotton wool balls, pine cleaners, googley eyes and pens (yes they were all asked for today). I’m also biting my tongue and not asking him what he is painting – if he’s telling me then it’s great but often he’s just experimenting with what appears.
It’s wonderful to watch him enjoy painting just because he can paint and not being directed by me as to what we’re going to make. It’s also made me realise that I need to add some new things to our art and craft box to match his needs for painting. At some point this year I would like to get him an easel – at the moment all painting is carried out either standing up at his little table or seated at our dining table which doubles as our crafting table but getting him an easel would mean that he would have much more freedom to paint and for those that the fear of using an easel at home check out Tinkerlab’s recipe for easy Indoor Easel Painting.
This is the sort of easel that we are going to go for it has a paper roll and a chalk board as well as a shelf for paint pots and brushes which is the other part that is missing for our art and crafts box – at present we are using yogurt pots and dishes to put the paints in but having a set of pots specifically for paints would mean that painting was much more accessible especially if they had lids so could be stored with paint in at the end of a painting session.
As a child my summers were spent painting in the garden at my easel and that’s what I remember most – yes we made stuff but by far it was the memories of the easel being set up and making up the poster paints from the powder in the paint pots getting the brushes out and our Dad’s shirts and painting for the pleasure of painting and now that is what I have to remember with J – just to let him paint for the pleasure of painting and teach him that it’s not always for the purpose of creating something.